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May 08, 2010


Yikes! I quite agree that you should not cater to his gender anxieties, and he probably *does* need to be told at some point that if he has a problem with something, he needs to speak up at the time and not let things fester.

When does D. get back? And when does your school year end?

Oh, yuck. I know what it's like to feel suddenly disconcerted with a co-worker who shows a drastically different face when you least expect it.

Take care of yourself!

It sounds like we were having similar weeks, what with the paranoia and vulnerability and the all. I agree, too, that you shouldn't cave to the gender anxieties, but I too hope that when this is a little less raw that you can hash this out with him, if only so that you're not walking on eggshells all the time.

Hope you're having a good weekend!

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  • I'm an English teacher at Fabulous Girls' School (FGS). I'm a convert to Judaism. I am partner to D. We live in an adorable, messy little house in Adventure City. Two cats -- the Muse and the Contemplative -- live with us and keep life at home plenty adventurous.

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